Relationship
The next worst thing after Hell fire is a bad marriage -Dr D.K Olukoya
“Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.”{Eccl 9:9}
The next worst thing after Hell fire is a bad marriage
- The choice of marriage partner is very critical in any life.
- What you still become in future is dependent on this choice of Marriage partner.
- Outside the salvation of your soul, the next most important choice is the marriage Choice.
Unfortunately! Many choose who to marry before they choose who to serve. As result of this, when they got born again, they discovered they have married outside the work of God for their life.
You have no power to choose mother, father, to choose your siblings; but you have that power to choose your wife. Choose wisely.
When a person Marry for wrong reasons; then it is obvious the person has married the wrong person.
Somebody said something;
| If a person misses his Purpose, the person has lost 50% of his life.
When the person now has a Wrong Marriage; then the person had lost the other 50% of his life. |
WRONG REASONS FOR MARRIAGE
Some marry just because:
They just like the idea of marriage
They are tired of remaining unmarried
Pressure
They want to Escape from been jilted
Money
They see it as an Escape route
Pity
Accidental marriage
Beauty
Loneliness
Too long Courtship.
Curiosity
Sexual attraction
All this are reasons that leads to bad marriage
As a result of this; marriages have been converted to zoo.
The couple actions can be likened to animals in a zoo
Husbands and Wives in the Marriage Zoo
THE HUSBAND
| Crocodile husband |
o This kinds of husband are Unyielding
o They are Arrogant and stubborn.
o That can Talk anyhow to their wife
o They are very difficult.
| Housefly husbands |
o These are Fake husbands.
o They only Perform well on bed and on the table but don’t provide for their wife.
o They take small girls to eatery and spend money they cannot spend on their wife.
| Scorpion husbands |
o Although they are married but they live like single Married men.
o They stay in Separate rooms.
o They are Selfish
o They spend the whole time with friends and very little time with wife.
| Serpent husbands |
o They are Hot tempered
o They are Boxers
o They are Very Abusive
o They shout at their wife.
o No laughing
o No joke
o They are Very stern and too strict.
o They are Very commanding.
| Bull husbands |
o They have the idea that Women are to be seen and not to be heard.
o They see their wife as a cook.
o They see their wife as a Dry cleaner
o They see their wife as baby making machine.
o They see their wife as A Sex machine.
o They use their wife as a House maid.
o They Place Family member above wife
| Dog husbands |
o They go around with several girlfriends.
o They spend lavishly on concubines.
o They sleep with house maids.
o They Impregnate house maids.
| Monkey husbands |
o There is No closeness
o It is a Romantic disaster
o No intimacy
o No love
o Not easily talked to
o Don’t respect the wife
o Wife is like a Slave in house
| Worm husbands |
o They Don’t work
o They solely Depend on wife
o They Do nothing at home
o They Sit down and watch TV while wife is doing so much task at same time
o They see helping of wife as abomination
| Rat husbands |
o They Exploit wife to solve their problem
o They Marry a woman just to get citizenship
o They Use wife as medication
o When they are fine, they stop loving the wife
| Baby Animal husbands |
o They are Infants spiritual, mentally, character wise; and third is not about age.
o They beat their wife
o They Reject t food when they are annoyed.
o They don’t assist wife in domestic works.
o They never apologize
o They are never influenced by their wife.
o They are nagging husband.
o They Keep malice for weeks and months.
o They Compare wife to former girlfriends, models and newscasters.
o They don’t move intimate with wife except for sex.
o They Always retaliate
o They pretend to love their wife when truly they don’t.
o They Don’t pray with wife
o They Report wife to third party
o They Embarrass their wife
o They Call their wife horrible names
o They Love their mothers more than wife
THE WIFE
| Chameleon Wife |
o They are the kind of wives that can be Smiling but don’t mean it.
o They Don’t welcome other people opinion
| Goat Wife |
o They are boxer wife
o There is No submission to husbands
o They Contest for leadership with husband
o They See husband as rival
| Peacock Wife |
o There are generally most times richer than husband
o They are Proud
o They are Arrogant.
o They are Stubborn
| Mosquito Wife |
o They are the Party wives.
o They love Only pleasures
o They are Highly social
| Butterfly Wife |
o They are Not used to hard life
o They loved to be pampered all time
| Pig Wife |
o They are the Dustbin wives.
o They are extremely very Dirty
o They keep clothes Unwashed.
o They leave their own Underwear dirty.
| Vulture Wife |
o They have Zero Tolerance for other women talking to husbands
o They Police their husband.
| Bulldog Wife |
o They are Ready to fight
o They keep Malice for a long time
| Hawk Wife |
o They Pursue job at the detriment of the family.
o They transfer their Functions to maids and driver.
o They don’t cook; put all Food in flask and Warmer.
ALSO READ: Major Characteristics To Look For In A Woman -Dr. D.K Olukoya
For any husband or wife that finds them in any category; they need to repent; this is the way they can enjoy their marriage and fulfil the will of God for their life.
Marriage is an honorable thing
May every dishonorable thing contesting your marriage; die in the name of Jesus.
